I am a $GENDERCATEGORY and I am/have been attracted to:
Does this mean "I find these people hot" or "I would actually like to have sex with these people"? Because these are two different things.
And....
I am a $GENDERCATEGORY and I have had consensual sexual contact with:
does not take into account people who *would*, but have not had the opportunity yet, or people who are sexually interested in XY or Z but would not seek out sex with them for whatever personal or pragmatic reason (also interesting data).
So perhaps adding another question like:
I am a $GENDERCATEGORY and given a suitable opportunity would have consensual sexual contact with:
Because just because you're not experienced at the moment doesn't mean you wouldn't act on it. And just because you identify as something doesn't mean, in the life you live, you feel comfortable acting on it or acting on all of it.
Okay, so looking at these questions...
Does this mean "I find these people hot" or "I would actually like to have sex with these people"? Because these are two different things.
And....
I am a $GENDERCATEGORY and I have had consensual sexual contact with:
does not take into account people who *would*, but have not had the opportunity yet, or people who are sexually interested in XY or Z but would not seek out sex with them for whatever personal or pragmatic reason (also interesting data).
So perhaps adding another question like:
I am a $GENDERCATEGORY and given a suitable opportunity would have consensual sexual contact with:
Because just because you're not experienced at the moment doesn't mean you wouldn't act on it. And just because you identify as something doesn't mean, in the life you live, you feel comfortable acting on it or acting on all of it.