And I tend to write and/or read fic that isn't any of those categories - yay xeno stories! And stories about trans people in relationships! And autoeroticism! And stories about multiple personalities of different genders sharing a body! And non-poly stories about people dealing with the aftermath of a (het/gay) relationship while getting into a (gay/het) relationship! And stories about people in committed romantic relationships not having sex! And casual pansexuality with no committed romantic relationships at all!

...I have more fics in AO3 tagged "other" than anything else. And yet I still call myself a slasher.