But also: the court treated us as grown-ups who were competent and could be trusted to get on with it without supervision and didn't owe the court anything, which was kind of an amazingly transformative experience to me? We weren't being evaluated, we weren't being supervised, we weren't being treated like we were there on sufferance and could be kicked out at any time if we didn't meet standards. It was weird to think that was maybe the first time I was ever in a position like that.
That's so interesting. I'm finding it hard to fathom. ;-p
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That's so interesting. I'm finding it hard to fathom. ;-p
Your con.txt panel, oh dear! /o\