I would not tend to use the word and also what I assume it means is based entirely on how I perceive the person using it parses stuff and all other things being equal will also immediately put me on the SUPER-defensive because it immediately ties in with an entire branch of discourse that has literally had me witness a rape survivor being terrified of the social consequences from other so-called feminist women if she wrote a story that had rape in it.

Soooooo. >.>