Yeah, there's a lot of that in comics fandom, partly because whenever they want an "event" they had Steve and Tony break up over ethical issues so it's hard to aviod. But most of what I see about MCU Cap is "poor perfect sad bisexual unicorn". Not that they're wrong there, but... Maybe I'm looking in the wrong places.

If I wanted to write the Carol one I would have to get into what was going on around the time of Chewie's origin story and gashdarnit I don't want to think about what the Avengers wolfpack was doing during Civil War.